Hi Lucia,

Like any other young Cub who has entered our seemingly sinful and joyful world of Cougar/Cubs, I find it hard to meet and/or approach older women.  What do I look for to see if a woman is interested in a younger man and what’s the best way to approach a woman in a public setting like that.  Biggie

Hi Biggie,

If you’d like to date a Cougar, the first thing you have to realize is that although the lifestyle may be joyful, it’s not sinful.  If that’s your perception, it will be a big turnoff, so you may want to re-think your perspective.

Approaching a Cougar is the same as approaching any woman, but it’s actually easier, because she will most likely be receptive even if she’s not interested.  Older women understand that it takes a lot for a man to risk rejection in public, so they will try to make it as painless as possible.

After looking to make sure she’s not wearing a ring, strike up a situational conversation.  This means, if you’re standing in line somewhere, ask about the event:  Have you heard if this is a good movie?  Do you know if the eggplant sandwich is good?   Do not start with a compliment, because there’s not much she can say to that except, “Thank you”.

If she seems receptive to talking with you, ask for her number, saying you’d like to get to know her better.  If she’s interested and available, she’ll give it to you but if she’s not, she’ll have a good excuse.

For more information, check out:  How to Catch a Cougar

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#4 Picturesquer 2016-02-18 01:48
Searching for the cougar of my dreams!
#3 Gary Steed 2014-07-10 06:09
I have a dumb question. Can older men date cougars or that a no no cause of the website and so on. Dumb huh.
#2 XRumerTest 2014-06-01 02:47
Hello. And Bye.
#1 David 2013-11-20 11:04
Cougars are fun !!! They are straight to the point and say what\'s really on their mind ! That\'s a turn on . Also why you should do the same tell them what you want ! No matter her age ! Cub out